Tuesday, October 06, 2009

FHE

I guess the time has come to officially start, or at least try to have Family Home Evenings. We've done small things and called it such, but last night we really gathered together and talked about good things and tried to keep it simple for Noelle. Boo even had a game that was simple enough for her to play. All in all, it was a disaster. She was terrible. Running around the house, literally rolling around on the floor and throwing pillows at her sister. Boo and I kept looking at each other with a very clear understanding of expressions. "We're doomed." I wasn't sure if I should laugh or cry. I think I did a little of both, seriously. Our whole experience may have lasted all of ten minutes. We both kept thinking about Elder Bednar's talk in conference about how FHE went in their house. We even laughed a little.
The only saving grace was that this morning, while in the shower Noelle asked me if I remembered that we had FHE last night. It opened up a little discussion about it, she thought it was fun, couldn't remember anything we had tried to teach her, but knew it was FHE. So here's to hoping that next week we have a little less running around and flailing limbs and that she learns something.

UPDATE: Noelle has been asking to play family home evening. I told her we will do it again on Monday. She doesn't know when Monday will come, but boy oh boy is she ever excited.

8 comments:

lacy said...

We started making a concerted effort at FHE when we got back to school here last year. Elly was almost 2. Our Family Home Evening NEVER lasts more than 10 minutes. But, we're okay with that. It's happier that way.

Heidi said...

I think it's all about the good memories! We just use the nursery manual. And always end with duck duck goose, which the kids love! Good work, mama!

Nay said...

Wonder if our family would have been different if I hadn't given up. Please don't give up :/

Louise Plummer said...

Next week: a five-minute family home evening. Whatever works!

Nancy said...

As soon as Elder Bednar's talk is posted, print it out. Read it every week, so that you can keep everything in perspective. As he said, consistency is what matters most.

talonandanna said...

sounds entirely familiar. lol

talonandanna said...

can't wait to see you guys! hey- and if you bring guitar hero,i promise not to be complain about how bad i suck, i'll just try to play nicely. :)

Stephanie said...

It's all about doing it. I don't think we've ever had a fhe last more than 20 minutes - including a game and a snack!

You're doing a fine job!